How To Plan A Traditional Jewish Funeral

Frequently, the younger generation is tasked with planning a funeral. Parents’ funerals are planned by their children. For grandparents, sometimes this is left to the grandchildren. When that kind of planning involves a religious funeral, very often, the younger generation is at a loss. Sometimes, younger generations are less observant of specific practices, beliefs, etc. But if a parent or grandparent wanted a traditional Jewish funeral, that’s what they should have.

Has it fallen upon your shoulders to plan a traditional Jewish funeral for a parent, grandparent, or loved one? If so, and you’re not sure where to start, first and foremost – leave it to us at American Heritage Cemetery Funeral Home Crematory. We can help with all the details. That aside, however, here are a handful of steps to follow if you need to plan a traditional Jewish funeral.

Burial Versus Cremation

Depending on the denomination of Judaism, and personal preference, rather than cremation, burial is usually chosen per Jewish tradition. As wholly as it was created, the body should be returned to the earth.

ASAP Burial

Ideally, on the day of the death or as soon as possible, a Jewish funeral should take place. It can be delayed in order to wait for people to travel, these days. Legal issues may also delay burial.

Embalming Versus Refrigerating the Body

Cosmetic application to a body and/or embalming of a body is usually avoided per Jewish tradition unless required by law. As naked, clean, and pure as a body came to earth, it should return to it.

All Wood, Simple Casket

Jewish custom prefers a casket that has no metal parts and is all wood (possibly pine). This allows the body to return to the earth as quickly and naturally as possible. This way, both the casket and body are biodegradable. They will become one with the earth as they disintegrate.

Appropriate Dress for the Deceased

A “tachrichim” or shroud is used to dress the deceased according to Jewish tradition. It symbolizes equity and purity. The garment has no pockets, per tradition.

You Will Need a “Shomer”

It is believed among Jewish people that, before burial, the deceased should not be left alone. From the moment of death until the person is buried, someone will stay with the body. This person can be referred to as a “watchman” or a “shomer”. This could be a professional or a family member or friend.

Get in Touch with a Chevra Kadishha

To make sure that all Jewish laws and rituals are properly followed, and to oversee body preparation, contact the Jewish burial society – a Chevra Kadishha. They may be able to help you plan the funeral or, at the very least, they’ll have a good idea of your area resources.

When in doubt, your best resource for funeral planning – no matter the religion or type of services required or needed – is as follows:

When You Need To Plan a Traditional Jewish Funeral – American Heritage Cemetery Funeral Home Crematory

Here at American Heritage Cemetery Funeral Home Crematory, we handle funerals of all types and sizes, each and every day. Traditional Jewish funerals are no exception.

We can help with the simplest of end-of-life arrangements to grand celebrations of life, and everything in between. Our family owned and operated business is comprised of compassionate, caring professionals who stand ready to be of assistance. Whether you’re preplanning or if you need to plan a funeral quickly, we are here for you.

Please, don’t hesitate to contact us.